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Embracing Serenity: A Glimpse into Life Without Anxiety

John

In a world where stress seems to be the norm, imagining a life without anxiety might feel like a distant dream. Yet, for those who have experienced the transformative journey of overcoming anxiety, it’s a reality that is both liberating and empowering. In this blog, we’ll explore what life is like without anxiety – a life filled with peace, confidence, and boundless possibilities.

Understanding Anxiety

Before delving into the beauty of life without anxiety, it’s essential to understand what anxiety truly entails. Anxiety is more than just feeling stressed or worried from time to time. It’s a persistent and overwhelming sense of fear, apprehension, and unease that can interfere with daily life and relationships.

For many, anxiety manifests in various forms – from generalized anxiety disorder and social anxiety to panic attacks and phobias. The physical and emotional toll of anxiety can be debilitating, affecting everything from sleep patterns and concentration to physical health and overall well-being.

Breaking Free from the Grip of Anxiety

The journey to a life without anxiety is often marked by courage, resilience, and self-discovery. It begins with acknowledging the presence of anxiety and making a commitment to confront and overcome it. While the path may be challenging, the rewards are immeasurable.

Therapy, mindfulness practices, and lifestyle changes are often instrumental in managing and reducing anxiety. My work using the Alexander Technique and EAM , in particular, has been shown to be highly effective in helping individuals challenge negative thought patterns and develop coping strategies.

Mindfulness techniques, such as meditation, deep breathing exercises, and progressive muscle relaxation, can also be powerful tools in cultivating a sense of calm and presence. By learning to observe and accept thoughts and emotions without judgment, individuals can reduce the intensity of anxiety and regain a sense of control over their lives.

The Beauty of Life Without Anxiety

So, what does life look like on the other side of anxiety? Here’s a glimpse into the beauty of living without the weight of constant worry and fear:

  1. Inner Peace and Calm: Without the constant chatter of anxious thoughts, life becomes more peaceful and serene. There’s a newfound sense of calmness that permeates every aspect of daily life, allowing individuals to navigate challenges with clarity and grace.
  2. Confidence and Self-Assurance: Anxiety often undermines self-confidence and self-esteem, leading individuals to doubt their abilities and worth. In its absence, there’s a profound sense of self-assurance and belief in one’s capabilities. People are more willing to take risks, pursue their passions, and step outside their comfort zones.
  3. Deeper Connections: Anxiety can isolate individuals, making it difficult to connect authentically with others. Without the barrier of fear holding them back, people are able to forge deeper and more meaningful connections with friends, family, and colleagues. Vulnerability becomes a strength rather than a weakness, fostering genuine intimacy and trust.
  4. Enhanced Well-Being: The physical and emotional toll of anxiety can take a significant toll on overall well-being. Without the constant strain of stress and worry, individuals experience improvements in sleep quality, digestion, and immune function. There’s a newfound vitality and zest for life that permeates every aspect of their being.
  5. Embracing Possibilities: Perhaps most importantly, life without anxiety is filled with boundless possibilities and opportunities. With the weight of fear lifted, individuals are free to dream big, pursue their passions, and embrace new experiences wholeheartedly. The world becomes a canvas waiting to be painted with the colors of adventure, joy, and fulfillment.

Embracing the Journey

It’s important to recognize that overcoming anxiety is not a linear process – it’s a journey filled with ups and downs, triumphs and setbacks. There may be moments when old fears resurface or new challenges arise, but with the tools and techniques learned along the way, individuals are better equipped to navigate the twists and turns of life with resilience and grace.

Ultimately, life without anxiety is not about the absence of fear, but rather the ability to embrace it with courage and compassion. It’s about reclaiming control over one’s thoughts and emotions, and living each moment with intention and authenticity.

So, if you find yourself longing for a life without anxiety, know that it’s possible. With dedication, support, and a willingness to embrace the journey, you too can experience the beauty of serenity and freedom that awaits on the other side.

Conclusion

In conclusion, life without anxiety is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit. It’s a journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and transformation that leads to a life filled with peace, confidence, and boundless possibilities. By confronting and overcoming anxiety, individuals can reclaim control over their lives and embrace each moment with clarity, courage, and grace. So, if you’re ready to embark on this transformative journey, know that you’re not alone. With the right support and resources, you too can experience the beauty of life without anxiety.

Alexander Technique, anxiety, depression

Do you ever feel down?

John

Well, I do, far more often than I’d like. It is normally when I’m not in control of things and I’m using responses from a time long ago. It is strange, I can be happy as Larry then something out of the blue pops up and I flop into worry and despair for no logical reason.

I do understand the mechanics of these behaviours but I still keep doing doing it. Admittedly, a lot less than a several years ago.

But it still happens!

Some old habits just don’t want the go!

I know how to get out of this state however sometimes I just wallow in the mire.

My way of getting out of this state is to firstly notice I’m having a bad time, this seems pretty obvious, from the outside its easy but, as probably many of you know, its difficult form in inside. I tend to need to fester for a while as I wrote above. There seems to be a moment when I sense enough is enough and I’m ready to get out of the mire, today was different, I was ready then I learnt about the death of an EAM mentor, i had never met her physically, only ever on Zoom, her energy was such a bright star burning in the dark, i will miss her as will many other. To me it feels like the day Steve Wright passed, grief and shock keeps flowing over me, I sense a collective grief and sadness.

Coming out of this gloom has been slow today, in fact I’m still there!

You my have read or heard about the power of now, this is what i use for my clients and also for myself. Being in the Now is a magical place where there is no place for doom and gloom, Now only happens for a moment, in fact its less than a moment, it’s the shortest period of time you can imagine. Holding on to Now means that you have held onto the past, this past may be only a moment ago, it is still the past!

To be in the Now you have to let go of what was Now a moment ago and then welcome in the new Now and instantly let that Now go to welcome the next Now in, then repeat and repeat. You may notice your mind clears, sometime your mind gets louder as if protesting about the intrusion of Now!

Give it a go, find somewhere to sit quietly, don’t drive etc as your eyes will be closed.

  • Close you eyes
  • Welcome the Now by silently saying Welcome
  • Let now go by silently saying Let Go
  • Repeat over and over again getting faster and faster, you may get so fast that there is no time for the words.

You my have some mind wandering, if you do, pause and start again, please don’t tell yourself off about it, this takes practice.

Calmness will appear, continue letting go and open yous eyes, your vision may have softened and you feel calmer. This certainly works for me.

I did this practice whilst writing this, I now feel grounded and present: i’m out of the gloom and mire.

How about you?

Contact me to discover more about being in balance in time and space.

Alexander Technique

Alexander Technique

John

The Alexander Technique: A Comprehensive Guide

The Alexander Technique is a method that aims to retrain habitual patterns of movement and posture. Named after its founder, Frederick Matthias Alexander, this technique is centered around the idea that the mind and body are interconnected, and that improving awareness and coordination can lead to greater ease and freedom of movement. In this comprehensive guide, we will explore the principles, history, benefits, and applications of the Alexander Technique.

History and Development

The Alexander Technique was developed by Australian actor Frederick Matthias Alexander in the late 19th century. As a young Shakespearean actor, Alexander faced challenges with vocal projection, which led him to develop chronic laryngitis. Frustrated by the lack of medical explanations for his condition, Alexander began to observe his own habits and movements, eventually discovering that excessive tension and poor posture were the root causes of his vocal issues. Through self-observation and experimentation, he developed a unique method for retraining his movement patterns, which not only resolved his vocal problems but also led to a significant improvement in his overall health and well-being.

Over the years, Alexander refined his technique and began to teach it to others. He attracted attention from the medical and scientific communities, and his method gained recognition for its effectiveness in addressing a wide range of musculoskeletal and stress-related problems.

Principles of the Alexander Technique

At the core of the Alexander Technique are several key principles:

  1. Awareness: Practitioners of the Alexander Technique are trained to bring conscious attention to their movements and habits. By increasing awareness, individuals can begin to identify and release unnecessary tension in their bodies.
  2. Inhibition: In the context of the Alexander Technique, inhibition refers to the ability to pause and prevent the impulse to react in habitual ways. This pause allows individuals to choose a more conscious and beneficial response to stimuli.
  3. Direction: The concept of direction involves redirecting the body towards a more balanced and aligned state. Through gentle guidance and mental intention, practitioners can cultivate a sense of lengthening and expansion in their bodies.
  4. Use of the self: This principle encompasses the idea that individuals can learn to use themselves more effectively, allowing for improved coordination, balance, and overall functioning.

Benefits of the Alexander Technique

The Alexander Technique offers a wide array of potential benefits for individuals who study and apply its principles:

  1. Improved Posture: By becoming more aware of habitual patterns, individuals can learn to release tension and reorganize their bodies for better alignment and posture.
  2. Pain Management: Many people turn to the Alexander Technique to address chronic pain conditions, as the method can help individuals identify and alleviate muscular and skeletal imbalances that contribute to discomfort.
  3. Enhanced Performance: Athletes, musicians, and actors often utilize the Alexander Technique to optimize their movement and coordination, leading to improved performance and reduced risk of injury.
  4. Stress Reduction: The practice of mindfulness and conscious movement can contribute to a greater sense of ease and calm, which can be particularly beneficial for individuals dealing with stress and anxiety.
  5. Efficient Breathing: The Alexander Technique often involves work on breathing patterns, which can lead to improved respiratory function and overall well-being.

Applications of the Alexander Technique

The Alexander Technique has been integrated into various fields and disciplines, including:

Healthcare: Many physical therapists, chiropractors, and other healthcare professionals incorporate elements of the Alexander Technique into their practices to help patients improve body awareness and movement patterns.

Education: The principles of the Alexander Technique are often taught in educational settings to help students develop better posture, reduce stress, and improve overall well-being.

Performing Arts: Actors, dancers, musicians, and other performers utilize the Alexander Technique to refine their movement, enhance stage presence, and prevent performance-related injuries.

Corporate Wellness: Some companies offer workshops and training in the Alexander Technique as part of their employee wellness programs, aiming to reduce workplace-related stress and improve posture among employees.

Conclusion

The Alexander Technique continues to gain recognition and popularity as a method for transforming movement, posture, and overall well-being. With its focus on awareness, inhibition, and intentional direction, this technique offers a unique and holistic approach to improving the mind-body connection. Whether applied in healthcare, education, performing arts, or corporate settings, the principles of the Alexander Technique have the potential to enhance physical, mental, and emotional functioning, fostering a greater sense of ease and freedom in daily life.

Alexander Technique

Energy Alignment Method

John

The Energy Alignment Method (EAM) is a powerful and transformative approach that aims to harmonize one’s physical, emotional, and energetic states. Rooted in the understanding that the body and mind are intricately interconnected, EAM offers individuals the opportunity to explore and address the underlying thought patterns and energy imbalances that may be contributing to their pain and discomfort.

By working with a mentor trained in the Energy Alignment Method, individuals can experience a unique blend of techniques designed to unlock their true potential and release any internal resistance. Through a combination of energetic alignment, conscious thought restructuring, and action-oriented steps, EAM empowers individuals to take charge of their well-being and cultivate a deeper sense of alignment and balance in their lives.

Whether conducted in-person or online, an Energy Alignment Method session typically involves a personalized and holistic approach tailored to the individual’s specific needs. The practitioner may engage in meaningful dialogue, energetic connections, or movement-based exercises, all aimed at guiding the individual towards a more aligned and empowered state.

The Energy Alignment Method not only addresses present challenges but also equips individuals with the tools to proactively navigate future experiences with greater clarity and resilience. By fostering a deeper understanding of one’s thought patterns and energetic flow, EAM supports individuals in embracing positive change, maximizing their potential, and ultimately moving through life with grace and ease.

Alexander Technique

Yesterday I met three witches

John

Yesterday I attended an Mind Body and Soul event in Hereford, a strange location, it was a shopping centre! My first stand at a shopping centre, rather strange energies as people were coming and going as they passed though the centre to other places doing their business.

I was upstairs with the other therapists, next to the toilets! So people did pass by however they were on mission. The day started slow, time to visit and chat to the other store holders, there were tarot cards, other readers, honey products, gems stones and lots of other stalls. We certainly had a mix of products and therapies. We even had a café in the building which I visited a few times.

I had breakfast there and later returned for a mid morning coffee, which ended up being a free coffee! The barista messed up the previous order and gave me an Americano.

I was chatting a women in just before me in the queue, she asked why I was here. I started my elevator pitch, explaining what I do in a minute, An Alexander Technique Teacher and Energy Alignment Method Mentor; I help people to come back into balance from whatever is pushing them out of balance. I ended with my twenty second demo, it may be thirty seconds, whilst in the queue waiting for her coffee. I asked if I could touch her shoulder and in a few moments her hand, she agreed and I did my magic. Well, it feels like magic to those I touch. She said her arm was getting longer and almost touching the floor, in reality here arm had lengthened about an inch.

What I’d actually done is place my hand on her shoulder and invited her to notice my touch, sense the heat and anything else. I invited calm though my touch and she copied my calm without knowing. Once I felt her change I then touched her hand and invited space between her shoulder and hand, she followed me and her arm released some of the tension she had been holding hence it felt like her fingers where touching the floor. It may not have been just twenty seconds probably thirty. Just in time, her coffee arrived and it wasn’t a cappuccino, it was black without milk. Apologies were offered and her cappuccino was made and I was offered the Americano for free.

She invited me to join her at her table, I agreed with a little trepidation, so there I was sitting with this stranger and her two sisters joined. We chatted and I told a brief story of how a came to be at the event and they explained why they were here: all three had strong psychic powers, it was a wonder couple of minutes to be with this energy, well it was probably fifteen minutes. I returned to my stand, and worked with someone who was seeking my help. In fact those who came to me were all seeking my help.

The day passed and I needed to eat so I returned to the cafe, I was sat down having my lunch and the three sisters returned. They had been looking for me, I wasn’t at my stand and they were told were I was. They joined me at my table.

The barista returned and gave me another free drink, again mistakenly made, this time a hot chocolate.

During our conversation I said, explaining first that what I’m about to say is said in a loving way, you are all witches; there were tears of joy from them. I’ve never been so content sitting with three complete strangers, it was like being with family, the family you really like. Their energy, which was lovely, enveloped me, I just wanted to stay there with them.

We chatted and one wanted a session with me, I returned and a few minutes later the three sisters met me. I got on with working with one. What we did is our business, I can say she let go of an awful lot of unwanted energy and looked connected to the world, ready to get on what she needs to do and looked radiant, no she was radiant!

Doing my work, I find inspiring and sometimes rather strange, I don’t know where it will lead. I go with the energy and I don’t know where it will lead.

What I do know is that letting go of thoughts and beliefs that are stopping you, lets you get on with your life.

My work is rapid and what I’ve been told is long lasting.

Give me a call and change your life.

Alexander Discovery, EAM

When Alexander met EAM

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Recently I attended a weekend retreat for EAM mentors, I volunteered to present for an hour on how I work with clients.

I personally really enjoy my presentation, it flowed and I got my message across, those who watched and participated looked like they enjoyed it and got a lot out of it. After the presentation I had a flow of people wanting to experience what I presented; during the presentation I demonstrated with two volunteers and they wanted some of what I did. I can’t remember their exact words the two volunteers said something on the lines for feeling light and free.

The presentation was a mix of Alexander and EAM, helping those attending to be more present and more knowledgeable about how their body works, I focused on the head neck joint, and the hip joints, getting greater awareness of these three joint ( you have two hip joints) your use will change dramatically.

You may have read that I’m very intuitive and can sense what’s going on in others bodies; don’t worry I only use my intuition when requested.

Using my intuition and the body mapping I introduced helps me to sense the angsts in people. The two volunteers got to sense my touch and I got the opportunity to help them where things in their bodies tight, where there was unnecessary tension. By me noticing and telling them they had the opportunity to release this tension.

Releasing tension is very difficult without help, you have probably been to a massage to help you with this. When I’m working with someone or a groups of people I invite space into the room and into their bodies. When I’m touching someone I can be more direct and invite space into a particular limb to show them what it is like to have freedom and aliveness. Sadly, this won’t last as they will normally return to their old habits over the coming days.

What I was experimenting with at the retreat was to include the above, part of the Alexander Technique and the next thing I’m about to write, EAM.

My thought was what would happen if I helped clients to improve their body awareness and also released the trauma that was causing their limbs and body to be in tension. With the queue of volunteers over the remaining day and the next, I experimented and had wonderful results extremely quickly. I could notice, resolve and release their angst within a few minutes with lasting effects.

I did get the comment that it looks like you put your hand on their shoulder, say a few words and they go away free, full of liveliness, big smiles and glowing.

I’ve since worked on my clients with the same rapid transformations. I am happy for you to contact me and tell me what I can help you with.

I’ve included two videos of what they thought of my work.

Alexander Discovery, Alexander Technique, attention, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire, happiness, intention, love, mindfulness

Having breakfast

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Yesterday was Saturday and we have started having breakfast at The Art of Coffee in Coleford, the coffee is great as is the breakfast, during our weekly shop. Yesterday was the Faddle Fair at Coleford, we didn’t realise the Fair was on so the town was busy as was the Cafe. I must have sensed it was busy as I rushed to the Cafe to book our breakfast and find a table to sit at. It was quiet however moments later the cafe filled up.

Our breakfast arrived and so did the cacophony of noise from the very chatty clientele, it was getting louder and louder. My wife wanted to eat up and leave quickly; most weeks it’s been a quiet place with couples and singletons enjoying a quiet breakfast reading the newspapers or quietly planning their day.

Not today!

I had a brain wave, why don’t I connect with everyone in the cafe and ask for quiet, I didn’t stand up and in my best loud voice say ” Excuse me but can you all talk quieter the cacophony is getting too loud” I don’t think that would have gone down too well!

Instead I did what I’d learnt during my Alexander training, that is to invite quite into the room. It does sound crackers, trust me it does work, my wife can testify as this is what I did yesterday.

How to do it is the complete opposite of what you may think you need to do. There is no doing involved, there’s letting go of trying to do anything. Letting my energy be at peace, letting my energy be calm and allowing the calm to spread to everyone in the room. When those in the room received my calm they quietened down and either stopped speaking or lowered the volume of their voice. My wife was impressed at the speed they quietened, then we enjoyed our breakfast in full cafe with everyone enjoying a few moments of calm with their breakfast. I do hope the other clientele enjoyed their calm moments and return to the The Art of Coffee for more chilled moments and of course their fabulous coffee.

This practice of quiet is what I use when I work with groups or when working with an individual client. It is the first stage of helping them with whatever angst they bring to me. As several of my clients have said to me on various occasions, this calm is better than drugs, I guess this is the calm what some people seek through drugs, I digressed.

Being calm is one thing, it is fantastic, what I’m seeking with my clients is a change is being able to be calm and also in activity at the same time. Two focuses at the same time, the focus of being calm, that’s having a full attention to their body and the place they are in and the focus on what they seek to do, the intent to achieve something.

Simple ah!

What stops everyone, including me, is the self-doubt and unworthiness in whatever form it takes that prevent you from having the attention to your body and space around you, and the intent to achieve something. I’ll help you with letting go of this self-doubt and unworthiness. When you watch my testimonials this is exactly what they are saying.

If you are seeking calm and or want to manage your the self-doubt and unworthiness then do contact me, i can help you.

See you soon.

John

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Alexander Technique, breathing, depression, EAM, freedom, habit, trying

Kintsugi for the soul

John

Kintsugi is a Japanese practice of repair broken pottery by using gold to lovingly and carefully join the broken pieces together again, hence making the piece even more precious than before.

What I do is Kintsugi for the soul, people come to me because they have physical pain and or emotional pain in the form of depression and anxiety. My techniques and methods are the gold to their cracks of pain.

The gold that seals the cracks in their soul.

Turning these cracks into gold so that you can show up for every moment of every day your precious beauty and magnificence.

EAM, love, mindfulness

Real Excitement

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Today I discovered that I’ve been fooling myself for many years, I really knew it already but have been hiding from the truth until today.

It was ok to admit it, I did get the help from someone else, they supported and guided me through my discovery.

I was overjoyed at my discovery, then I had a huge mental collapse for the afternoon. I stayed with my collapse, living and accepting it as I was realigning, now these events don’t take too long, once they used to take days now a few hours. I really don’t like these mental collapses, when I’m in them they never seem to end, I loiter around allowing things to happen, sleep helps, being kind to myself helps, waiting helps even if its painful.

Then it’s all over.

Clarity, I know my way ahead.

You may be wondering what it was?

It was the discovery that I’ve been stuck in a metaphorical box which has been constraining me and preventing who I really am. It’s been going on for years in fact decades and I haven’t even noticed it, obeying the rules with a little wiggle room to help me believe I’m a free spirit. I guess you may be like this as well or you haven’t yet noticed your own box.

I’ve been pushing against my box for sometime, it’s exhausting and futile. I had emptied my core, I felt like a doughnut with no centre, my centre hole all burnt, scarred, cracked and blacked, there was nothing in the centre. All my effort and energy was pushing outwards and burning my core as it went. I felt the only way out of the box was to be in service to others and ignoring my service to self. I’ve been burning myself out from the inside. The charred empty burnt feeling felt very real earlier today, I can still sense its emptiness. I hadn’t noticed before today, today opened up my senses!

This has been smouldering for a very long time.

Now the smouldering has been put out!

I’ve now burst out of the box with excitement and now getting on with my life.

What an awful Image, I guess its got your attention!

The excitement isn’t the head sort of excitement which I see as a frenzy, being over ecstatic with excitement. What I sense is the heart and gut excitement that is driven and focused, it has it’s own beauty to this excitement, there is a vision and goal to it, there is a clarity and joyfulness that drives this excitement, its very personal excitement, its the energy you see in motivated people. There a love of life!

This may have happened this morning, it now seems such a long time ago. A lot went on in the session I had.

Simply put my energy, yin and yang and auras were aligned.

Post Note:

I wrote the above yesterday, today I’ve been busy doing practical stuff, clearing out old paperwork from my office, there was a lot of it! Helping my wife with things and being happy with whatever I’ve done, a strange concept that I’m very happy to get used to.

Going through all this anxiety and depression has really opened my eyes to how difficult it is without support and love from others.

Please get in touch if you ever need a chat or help, I’m here and I understand.

Alexander Technique, anxiety, depression, EAM, freedom, Inhibition, intention, stopping

Kintsugi

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Many people see kintsugi as a symbol of rebirth supporting an ancient philosophy that nothing is ever truly broken beyond disrepair. Rather than hiding the damage of a broken bowl, plate or mug, kintsugi emphasises the breakages, creating a new and improved golden pattern into the tableware so it becomes even more valuable than before.

Repair the cracks with love

What has this to do with you?

I see this as a metaphor for each and everyones life. We are “as designed” when we are born then over time situations, people and our own thoughts and beliefs wear away at what we are supposed to be. This statement is intentionally very nebulas as we are moulded by situations, people and our thoughts and beliefs over time, I guess the issue is when these aren’t serving you your best, when you are being a slave to them and getting nothing in return, then there is a problem. Eventually you will snap, crash, break or be a nasty mess on the floor, you may be all of these all at once or over a period of time from months to decades.

Nothing will change until you realise that the stuff not servicing you is not for you, this is so hard to recognise as these things are you, or you believe they are you. It is not until you completely snap, crash, break and be that nasty mess on the floor that you may notice there is a need to change. Note the ‘may’ as it is very hard to grasp that what you have been doing for all those years isn’t serving you and leading you to an early grave. You need to stop and look around, pause for as long as you need and be brave at what you see and hear. If you don’t like what you see and hear, stop doing it. Easy words to say but difficulty to really do.

This happened to me a few months ago, what I’ve been doing for many years wasn’t serving me now, it may have been once but not at that moment. After my snap, crash, break and nasty mess on the floor. I picked up the pieces that are serving me and left the rest on the floor; this takes time, help from others that’s those who have the best for me and I really trust. Trust is ever so important; I let my heart and gut tell be who was right for me and letting my head be quiet for a change.

Carefully picking each piece up and finding where it fits and rejoining with love I’ve slowly rebuilt myself with my own love and the love and support from others. It is ever so important to seek help as they can see things that I was clearly blind to me, the things that are deeply hidden and waiting to return to the good old days, these things need to be thanked for their service and let go.

Seek the support that you need; my support was my wife, close friends, quietness and reflection. Have the knowledge of what helps also helped me, I got a lot of support from fellow EAM mentors, either just chatting or helping me with energy alignment, I’ve also done kinesiology, hypnotherapy and CBT to help me. There are many more modalities out there, these are the ones that resonated with me and presented themselves at the right time.

I guess we will all have our own crash and end up a shitty mess on the floor, we will all have our own from of shitty mess, mental breakdown, some physical, perhaps back pain, shoulder pain and others will have cellular problems that manifest as cancer or many other issues. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we all did a little bit of self-help each day or find a trusted friend or mentor to repair the cracks with love as they appeared hence constantly improving yourself with love and the love of others over time. Wouldn’t this be better than having the experience of being a shitty mess on the floor and rebuilding yourself from scratch.

There are many therapists and mentors out there that can help. Now you have read this far, I’m available to chat to see how I can help.